The White Lotus

 I wasn't sure if I wanted to watch   The White Lotus, a show about people behaving badly, but it's a project by Mike White, who also did the series Enlightened with Laura Dern that I thought was so good because it was so excruciatingly real in its depiction of people's self-delusion. The White Lotus turned out to be very similar in the way it showed how each character played out a role as they seemed to believe themselves to be good people, even as they also did or said despicable things. The hotel guests are treated as if their every whim is to be indulged, and none of them displays any kind of self-awareness around their position in this transaction.  The staff need the jobs and are correspondingly willing to be exploited: a woman who is about to give birth  goes into labor but doesn't want to leave her first day on the job even after her water breaks; the young Hawaiian man, Kai, knows his family was ripped off when the land was taken for the hotel but he needs a job and allows himself to be persuaded to steal as a kind of pseudo-reparations act; the spa director Belinda knows the score about rich white ladies but still allows herself to be deluded into thinking that THIS one is going to invest in her business instead of just using her as an emotional crutch; general manager Armond is seething with rage but is in charge of making sure everyone who works for him wears their kabuki mask, until his double-booking mistake turns into a feud with the worst entitled man-boy and he falls off the wagon. Paula, the guest of the Mossbacher family and the only person of color among the guests, does see the colonialist dimension but isn't able to free herself from her role as rich girl's friend. Her act of rebellion in urging Kai to steal from the family, goes horribly wrong and she does nothing to help him. This NPR review by Linda Holmes does a great job of laying out how each of the characters--and especially Rachel, Tanya, and Paula-- comes under the show's scrutiny. Tiny acts of freedom are swallowed up by a system that overwhelms. Rachel knows Shane is horrible but she chooses to stay with him, to be the trophy wife and avoid the risks of trying to live up to her own ideals; Tanya makes a connection with Greg because each of them is honest about their biggest defect--she's crazy and he's dying, but she also leaves Belinda high and dry after claiming she was going to invest in her business; Paula, the guest of the Mossbacher family, does see the colonialist dimension but isn't able to free herself from her role as rich girl's friend. Her act of rebellion in urging Kai to steal from the family, goes horribly wrong and she does nothing to help him. An act of rebellion that will probably go nowhere is when the 16-year old Quinn runs away before boarding the plane in a kind of reverse Home Alone move. He has no money, no phone, and has been shown to be oblivious to his own privilege even as he suffers the bullying of his awful older sister Olivia. We want him to extricate himself from his screwed-up family but he's probably going to get his new buddies in trouble if he turns to them for help. The acting, music,  and costumes were terrific. Natasha Rothwell, whom I'd seen in Issa Rae's show Insecure, is great. It has apparently been renewed for a second season that will be somewhere other than Hawaii.